I believe manhood is mostly closely tied to the activity of attaining "to the measure of the stature which belongs to the fullness of Christ". He is our perfect model in all things. Work ethic, Social Justice, Humility, Grace, Strength, Love, Service, Leadership, Wisdom, and on and on and on… A man is one who abides, who dwells constantly in the presence and power of God. That touches and transforms everything. This man is already approved and walks in strength and confidence from the One who matters most to Him. Listen to the Spirit, Linger in the Word, Learn what pleases the Lord and He'll fill in the blanks that are the details. Amazing the flexibility and freedom that comes from this kind of living.

In light of that, a question to ask ourselves: Where are you placing your trust – in your strength(s) or His?

Gentleness and Humility arise from a deep seated strength. One that has no need to prove itself. One that is rooted in Christ.

'what makes a man' by City and Colour – the album is called the myspace transmissions

A man makes a plan – and then follows it.

A man is willing to do "hard" things – he believes he will be better off in the long run.

A man listens to carefully-picked council – he is willing to try their suggestions – and he takes what he likes and leaves the rest.

A man takes care of his own needs first – then he can be of better service to God and others.

A man sometimes succeeds – and he gives credit to God's help.

A man sometimes fails – and he learns and he pushes on.

A real man is both warrior and wooer…someone who knows how to fight the good fight, who can fight for and defend and uphold his woman's heart. A real man connects with the intimate part of Jesus and is able to stand strong in a culture that has a tendency to emasculate him yet remain humble, gentle and kind. Anatomy is merely a part of the pot the Potter has created and it's the contents that truly define the character of a person.